Nine Little Secrets to Prosperity:

1. Don't eat too much, don't be too nice to others, don't help too much when busy, and don't invest too much in emotions.

2. Whatever others say about me has nothing to do with me.

3. For things or people out of control, let them go; forcing it won't work, go with the flow, entanglement will only lock you into your own path.

4. Clear the past, do not bring up old accounts. Bringing it up just drags you back into the abyss and hurts you again.

5. Whoever you sympathize with, you carry their fate. If your wisdom and ability are not enough, don’t help indiscriminately.

6. If you want to change someone, you are stirring up their fate. If they seek your help, it’s a favor; if they don't ask for your help, it’s a lesson, and it may even breed resentment!

7. If something is going to happen, what's the use of worrying? If it’s not going to happen, then there's nothing to worry about!

8. Being open-hearted doesn’t guarantee reciprocation. Expecting kindness from others is a form of self-harm.

9. Everything that has happened is for the best; everything is beneficial to me.