Maksym Mykhailovskyi

A person came with a conclusion that sounds like a verdict: friendship does not exist. It’s an illusion. And you know what? He is right. But not entirely.

15 years without friends: the truth about friendship that no one wants to hear
His logic:
Friendship is based on common goals: school, work, enemy, survival. When the goals diverge — friendship dies. That's the whole mechanism. Children quarrel over monopoly and make up. Adults — do not forgive. Because adults see selfishness where children see just boredom.

Listen, it's not about you being good for nothing. It's about you comparing your first day to their tenth year. And that kills you.

You are not a failure — you are trapped in a comparison that you built yourself
Here's what happens:
Your psychologist is a mathematician-scientist, then became a psychologist. This is not a year, this is a career. Her second psychologist makes fireplaces — he started a long time ago, learned the ropes, and studied. The third one draws, sings, makes toys out of cotton — and yes, she made 6 toys in November that people buy.

Husband and wife argue over dishes. Or socks. Or the color of the curtains. Everyone thinks these are just trivial matters. But they are not trivial. They are an iceberg. Underwater lie conflicts of values, expectations, unfulfilled dreams that people do not voice for years. And one day, a small unwashed plate becomes the trigger for an explosive quarrel.

$749 billion. This is not just a number. It is more than the GDP of most countries. It is more than the wealth of the nearest competitor multiplied by three. The Delaware Supreme Court approved Musk's 2018 compensation package from Tesla — and here he is at the top, as one man can be.

Elon Musk has become three times wealthier than the second richest person on the planet — that's what this means

Это не мотивация. Это не амбиции. Это классический паттерн, который психиатры называют циклотимией или биполярными чертами — резкие скачки от эйфории к глубокой депрессии, повторяющиеся годами. И ты описал его идеально.

Как это выглядит со стороны:
Фаза взлёта (мания):
Ты рождён для величияМоре энергии, мотивацииГиперпродуктивность: зал, бокс, биохакинг, гитара, стихи, YouTubeЧувство, что ты должен изменить мирСпишь мало, едешь быстро
Потом краш:
Отвращение к мируНе видишь смысла встать с кроватиМусор в квартире, не моешьсяНенависть к себеПотеря работы, но плеватьЛюди не понимают, почему ты не боришься
Потом стабилизация:
Медленно, очень медленно встаёшьИщешь работуЖивёшь более-менее нормально
Потом снова БАБАХ:
Приходит идея о величииИ цикл начинается заново
Это не слабость. Это биология.
С 14-15 лет, почти 10 лет одного и того же? Это не характер, это паттерн мозга. Дофамин, серотонин, нейротрансмиттеры — всё это работает с перекосом. Когда система включена на максимум, ты чувствуешь себя богом. Когда выключена — червяком.
Почему близкие не понимают:
Потому что они живут в нормальной линии. А ты на синусоиде. Волны. То вверх на крышу, то вниз на дно. Они не видят логики — ведь ты же буквально вчера был супергероем, а сегодня не встаёшь?
Что тебе нужно сейчас:
Не мотивационный ролик на YouTube. Не новый план величия. Не очередная идея стать сверхчеловеком.
Тебе нужен психиатр. Не психолог, психиатр. Есть разница. Психолог поговорит. Психиатр может дать лекарства, которые стабилизируют эти скачки.
Возможно, тебе поможет:
Стабилизатор настроения (литий, вальпроат или другие)Выявление точных триггеровРежим сна (это критично)Ограничение стимуляции (соцсети, кофеин, информационный шум)
Аналогия с крипто:
Твой мозг как волатильный рынок $BTC. Пиковые максимумы, потом обвал в минусы. Опытные трейдеры знают: в такой волатильности нельзя торговать эмоционально. Нужна система, которая гасит колебания.
Главное:
Это не твоя вина. Ты не ленивый, не слабый, не неудачник. Ты просто живёшь с неуравновешенной нейрохимией. И это 100% поддаётся коррекции.
Пойди к психиатру. Это первый и самый важный шаг. Не откладывай. 10 лет — уже много потерял.
#Ментальное_здоровье #Депрессия #Мотивация #Психология #БиполярностьЧерты #Помощь #Саморазвитие #Крипто #Инвестиции

The newlyweds entered "IKEA" hand in hand, loving each other. They came out almost as enemies. What happened? Curtains. Just orange curtains and male pride. This story is not about color, it's about why half of marriages fall apart for no reason.

Why we divorce: a story about orange curtains and male pride

Cracks on the lips? Hair falling out? Are you tired for no reason? Your body is signaling for help — it's asking for assistance. And often the answer is not in pills, but in vitamins and trace elements that you are simply not getting enough of. How to understand what exactly you need?

Your body is screaming for vitamins — here's a guide to understand what it's lacking.

Antarctica. -50 degrees. Taylor Glacier. And suddenly — blood. Literally saturated red water, like from a wound of the planet. This is not an ordinary waterfall. This is a window into an underground world that has been closed for millions of years and has never been opened.

"Blood of Antarctica": a waterfall that has been flowing for 2 million years, isolated from the world

Imagine: you are digging a garden bed, busy with your own. And suddenly — ting on the shovel. Metal. You dig it up, thinking it's an old pipe or scrap metal. No. It's a completely buried Ford Popular from 1955. Half a century underground. Like a car from a movie about a lost world.

A man was digging a garden and stumbled upon a 70-year-old treasure — a Ford from 1955, buried right in the yard.

Million dollars. Recognition. Glory. All the awards that mortals dream of. And here is Grigori Perelman, who solved the problem that the best minds fought over for a century, simply says: "No." Just no. Not because he is strange. But because he understood something that the rest of the planet did not understand.

1502 year. No satellites. No drones. No GPS. There is Leonardo da Vinci, a ruler, a compass, and a transcendental mind. The result? A map of the city of Imola, which is more accurate than many modern images. Look at it next to Google Maps — and you understand: this guy was an alien.

Leonardo da Vinci created Google Maps 500 years before Google — just with a ruler and a brain

New York, club, bouncer in a blue uniform. Grace Jones looked up at him — and this is the moment. Not a 'handsome guy', but calm confidence. Magnetism that cannot be described in words. The moment when two completely different beings recognized each other.

Grace Jones and Dolph Lundgren: a story where art met strength

Finns do not eat trendy food, do not practice yoga, and do not count calories. They go to the sauna 2–4 times a week. For thousands of years. Just like that. And they live longer, healthier, and happier than you, who runs on the treadmill with a sour face.

Finland knows the secret of longevity, while you sit in the gym and suffer

This phrase spreads across the internet like a virus. It is repeated by people who are tired of responsibility, tired of pain, tired of obligations. But this is the most dangerous lie, because it destroys the only thing that makes us human — relationships.

"No one owes anyone anything" — a lie that destroys everything

The Greenland shark has lived for 400 years and is still growing. The ocean quahog has lived for 507 years. The Galapagos tortoise has lived to 190 and continues to reproduce. These creatures have viewed time quite differently than we do.

Animals that live for 500 years: the main secret of longevity that people have forgotten

Imagine: you work for 12 hours, come home exhausted, and here you need to walk the dog, feed the cat. The solution? Leave an open bottle of tea in warmth for a few days. After a week, a white fluffy ball appears inside — tea mold. A meeting with your new "pet".

The Chinese have kept mold as pets — and it's genius

Do you know what's the strangest thing? In a world where we are more 'connected' than ever — social networks, chats, channels — people feel more lonely. Psychologists have identified three types of loneliness, and each one acts like a virus.

3 types of loneliness that destroy from within — and how this is related to the crypto world

Russian banks have tightened the verification of large transfers between private individuals. Want to send money to your mom? The transaction is frozen. A call from an employee: "And who is this? A relative? To which account? Why the money?" You are forced to account to the bank for your own money.
How does it work:

The Moscow court returned a 45-square-meter apartment to a pensioner who sold it in 2019. The deal amount is 5 million rubles. Reason for cancellation? The woman claimed she was 'not sane' at the time of signing. And you know what's funny? This is not the first time.

Old scam in a new guise: how one pensioner annulled a housing contract