Fourth-rate experts rely on technology.
Third-rate experts rely on capital management.
Second-rate experts rely on concepts.
First-rate experts rely on psychology, and super experts rely on quality.
The ten consistencies between buying coins and marrying a wife.
1. When marrying a wife, you must choose one that you are satisfied with, and you can't just pick one randomly on the street! (When buying coins, you need to have self-evaluation and choose the best.)
2. You must carefully check the background of your future wife, including her family (the person in charge of the coin type)!
3. The woman you definitely don't want to spend your life with, you certainly won't marry! (If you don't want to hold a coin for 3-5 years, you shouldn't buy it.)
4. After marrying her, you need to spend every day with her. Whether you can have a chubby boy in the future depends on your own genes! (How the returns are depends on your own ability to choose coins.)
5. If your wife is ignoring you, you should know why! (During a downturn, find the root cause, strengthen your confidence in holding coins, and don’t forget your original intention. If she has really changed her heart, there’s nothing you can do; you can only cut losses.)
6. Don’t engage in one-night stands; even if you encounter problems once in ten attempts, you’re done! (Avoid having a blind gambling mentality in short-term trading.)
7. Don’t always look for a mistress; in fact, one fierce wife is already enough to keep you busy! (Don’t let outside temptations distract you.)
8. During holidays, you should still visit your father-in-law's house (to better understand the internal situation of cryptocurrencies and master first-hand information).
9. After having children, you should educate them together with your wife. Don’t leave all the tasks to teachers and schools! (Dilute costs, do high selling and low buying with the trend, reduce costs, combining fundamentals and trends.)
10. If a couple raises their child well and can earn money to support their parents, then you can retire! (As time goes by, profits increase, allowing you to hold onto your coins without worry and gradually take profits in batches.)
Don’t think enlightenment in trading is something particularly profound. It is not a difficult state to reach. Many people always think enlightenment means being able to see through all market trends, or they think that once enlightened, they can achieve perfect trading success and trade at will!
In fact, it is quite the opposite. The traders who can achieve success in financial trading and maintain stable profits are merely those who have a deeper understanding of this matter than most people. They all have a correct cognitive system, which is why many people feel that trading is very difficult and hard to make money.
Let me give you an example, and you will understand. Trading itself is a highly specialized field, just like a surgeon performing an operation. Imagine how a person grows from a novice to a professional doctor. Once you think about it this way, you will understand why so many people find it difficult to make money in this market. They feel that the market is hard because they don’t even have the basic understanding. They lack fundamental logical reasoning and expect to make money in this market after just a few months.
It's like someone who has never practiced boxing stepping into the ring with Tyson. What do you think the outcome will be? You can imagine!
I might seem ridiculous when giving this example, but many people's thoughts in the cryptocurrency futures market and many derivative markets are like this: someone without medical training wants to operate on others; someone who has never boxed wants to take down Tyson. Is that possible?
Next, let’s return to the topic: what kind of state is enlightenment? Enlightenment is definitely not about mastering market trends, seeing through market behaviors, or being able to perform flawless trades.
1. Many newcomers to the market want to do every kind of trade, fearing they will miss all opportunities. As soon as they see market fluctuations, they blindly enter the market. However, enlightened traders understand the importance of choice and waiting. In the end, trading is not about technical skills, but rather the art of waiting.
2. At the same time, after attaining enlightenment, you will have a clear positioning of what market conditions you want to trade. You must resolutely avoid trading in market conditions that are not within your system framework. It’s a matter of choice! And strictly control risks. Master traders who have attained enlightenment have learned to coexist peacefully with losses. You should ask yourself if you can truly accept losses calmly. This is the first step to enlightenment in the financial market. Many people think that enlightened masters are all profit-makers; on the contrary, these people are all experts at handling losses. Their trading often accompanies losses and they frequently incur losses, but once opportunities arise, they can make significant profits. This means they understand that the market will eventually have trends. Enlightened people are adept at riding the wave and also deeply understand that this process requires incurring small losses as trial-and-error costs, which is something ordinary people simply cannot comprehend. Just like I said, can you really accept losses?
Many people only know they should accept it, but still cannot truly do so!
This means that the more you lose money, the better you can make money, just like doing business, which has costs. It can be said that 90% of traders do not understand this point at all. They feel uncomfortable seeing losses, and as soon as they lose money, they immediately want to re-enter the market to recover their losses. The result is that the more they trade, the more they lose, and the more they lose, the more they trade, ultimately treating the market as an outlet for their emotions, completely disregarding the feelings of their capital (soldiers).
3. Those who are enlightened have clear plans and decision-making mechanisms. These people have essentially developed a mindset of 'If the market does this, I will do that.' In their eyes, there are no words like 'I think', 'it seems', or 'definitely'. They understand that market trends are unpredictable, and the correct trading posture is to respond to market changes accordingly, which is something the average person simply cannot comprehend!
4. Enlightenment is actually the process of moving from knowing to doing. Many people understand the reasoning but cannot execute it. Why?
Because the most terrifying and lethal thing in this world is inertia. You may have this understanding, but cannot convert that understanding into correct actions, which is the obstacle preventing everyone from ultimately attaining enlightenment.
Let me ask you, when you see others shooting hoops, it’s just those few movements. You think you can do it too, but why can’t you make the shot? What’s missing in the middle? Is it the lack of repetitive, tedious training? Trading is the same; you know this, but if you don’t have extensive training to correct your behavioral habits, you cannot achieve it!
Many people say that once you attain enlightenment, trading becomes an act of following one's whims. That’s true; just like sticking to a proper daily routine ensures you wake up at eight in the morning, that is following one's whims. However, before following whims, there must be tedious training and strict self-discipline. Without true self-discipline, you will never be truly free, nor will you be able to follow your whims!
Finally, I offer everyone a saying: knowing but not acting is the same as not knowing; acting without knowledge can lead to true knowledge!
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