My brother's heartfelt words are all the product of a sobriety honed through real-life setbacks. To put it bluntly, it's perfectly natural for men to like beautiful women, but failing to distinguish between "high-quality assets" and "junk" assets is the romantic equivalent of being "scammed"—ultimately, your money, time, and energy are all tied up, leaving you with nothing.
You mentioned those "fat-covered-bones" types. While they may appear soft and adorable on the surface, they're actually "high-maintenance" types: they can't control their mouths, experience emotional rollercoasters, and rely on technology to keep them going as they age. This isn't finding a partner; it's like signing a long-term "maintenance contract" for yourself, with ridiculously low value for money. Ordinary men are often fooled by this "soft" bubble, only to discover it's a trap once it bursts.
As for female cryptocurrency bloggers, they're either "hardcore careerists" whose skills can't keep up with their growth and will be left behind in a matter of minutes; or they're more knowledgeable than you, hoping to "buy low, sell high" based on their looks. It's pure wishful thinking. If you truly want to partner up, you must be strong enough to "synergize value creation" with others. Otherwise, you'll sooner or later be eliminated by the market.
As for those "popular beauties" who follow the trends of influencers and live within the filters of their social media feeds, they may appear glamorous, but in reality, they're all expending all their energy on "ineffective social KPIs": checking in, taking photos, and following influencer tactics. If you spend too much time with them, your own life rhythm will be distorted, and you'll end up stuck in the "track of mediocrity," never to break through.
The worst offenders are those "high-risk" nightclubs where drunken madness and a group of male besties are commonplace. Their unreliability is evident from the moment they met. Their poor drinking habits and chaotic sleep schedules will make dealing with these messes after marriage overwhelming. Avoid these "minefields," as they will cause lifelong trouble.
Ultimately, relationships, like investing, depend on the underlying logic: a woman with a pure heart, a clear mind, and self-discipline is the rare commodity that can bring you "long-term value creation." Don't be fooled by filters. The glamour in the lens is all "packaged value," while the reality behind the lens is the "intrinsic value." When it comes to relationships, the worst thing to do is to settle for something "since you're already here." Only with the right person can you move forward together; with the wrong one, you become a "negative asset" that drains each other. If you don't understand this, it's easy to stumble in a relationship.
