This post was inspired by One Official Tv.... TYLER PERRY said "I had to cut my aunt off. She kept saying she needed a job—always calling, always asking for money. So I said, ‘OK, I’ll send you some money, but I want to help you build, not become your welfare.’ But she never showed up when it was time to build."
Tyler continued "You want me to hand you the money but you don't want to work for it and that doesn't work for me."
Tyler even did the same to his son.
And I have already told my first son the same. I told him to start building his life because at the end of the day, we are all ON OUR OWN in this life. This was exactly what my father did to me when I became a teenager. He told me that I won't inherit anything from him. It dawned on me that I was alone. Today, I have rejected all inherited lands and not interested in any form of inheritance.
When Tyler Perry's mother died, he sent every member of his family a message that said: ‘You’ve got 60 days to become gainfully employed, because I’m not carrying this weight forever.’ And they all got Jobs now”
Please watch his podcast session with Krit Franklin of “Den of Kings”.
Don't become anyone's PERMANENT WELFARE PLAN. You will destroy their ability to create extra income. Learn how to tell family members or even lovers "WORK WITH MY COMPANY AND EARN SALARY OR COMMISSION. LET'S BUILD TOGETHER." If they are not loyal enough to build with you, you should never let your conscience judge you for not helping them.
Just because you get gas in a Cylinder in Nigeria , doesn’t mean that is the only way you can get gas supply.
In America ,gas is supplied through a vast network of pipelines underground.
But your level is what your ignorance can handle .
Your Cylinder is what your social infrastructure can accommodate .
So when you don’t understand this variables , you can start dishing out knowledge and recycling that ignorance that gas, can only be supplied in a cylinder.
Don’t recycle mediocrity as a standard for excellence.