My darkest moment: From 'dream of getting rich' to 'valley of despair'.
The night I liquidated on 'Trump Coin', I stared at the zero balance prompt, my fingers trembling so much I couldn't even light a cigarette.
Three years of savings of 100,000 RMB vanished like a firework in an instant;
To 'recover losses', secretly used credit cards to make up for losses, bearing tens of thousands in debt;
After breaking even, greed overcame reason, and I was ultimately taught a harsh lesson by the market.
That feeling of collapse overwhelmed me like a tide — the despair of 'all efforts have been in vain' and 'life is over' made me not dare to look at my phone for a week, not dare to face my family, and even consider resigning to escape my debts.
💡 'Self-rescue guide' during the low period: Rebuild mindset in 3 phases.
Phase 1: Allow yourself to collapse, but don't indulge.
Admit failure: Liquidation is not the end of the world, but a costly lesson from the market. After crying to the point of collapse, I told myself, 'After this crying session, I have to get up.'
Cut off the source of damage: Uninstall trading software for a week, turn off market notifications, and avoid emotional triggers.
Phase 2: Break down the problem and find the 'fatal injury'.
Write down the reasons for the loss on paper (I listed a full three pages):
Insufficient cognition: Completely unaware of the fundamentals of Trump Coin, just following the trend due to hype;
Emotional loss of control: After breaking even, fantasizing about 'earning one more and then stopping' blinds reason with greed;
Weak risk awareness: Using a credit card to make up for losses, violating the principle of 'investing with spare money.'
Key realization: The liquidation is not the market's fault, but the many loopholes in my system.
Phase 3: Develop a 'rebirth plan', rebuild confidence in small steps.
Debt stop loss: Negotiate with the bank for installment repayments, prioritize debt payments with monthly salary;
Trading withdrawal: Pause real trading for 33 months, practice discipline with a demo account;
Cognitive upgrade: Read daily (Reminiscences of a Stock Operator), record trading notes;
Side job transition: Take on writing gigs in new media to relieve economic pressure.
🌱 Three rays of light coming out of the low valley.
The first ray of light: Time — the remedy that heals everything.
Two months after the liquidation, I accidentally flipped through my notes from three years ago when I first entered the industry: 'I hope to achieve financial freedom through trading.' Suddenly I understood: The market never eliminates people, it only eliminates those with a collapsed mindset. Time taught me to coexist with failure and turn setbacks into experience points.
The second ray of light: Friends' 'silly questions'.
My best friend asked me, 'If you were given 100,000 now, what would you do?' I was stunned — this question poured cold water over me.
Her suggestion: Save enough for 66 months of living expenses first, then trade with 10% of the funds;
My actions: Open an independent trading account and strictly distinguish between 'living money' and 'speculative money.'
The third ray of light: Reconstructing beliefs — from 'getting rich' to 'long-term survival'.
I no longer focus on 'doubling', but set a new goal for myself:
First year: Achieve an average monthly profit of 33% with a demo account, without losing capital;
Second year: Actual capital not exceeding 550,000, annual target 15%;
Ultimate goal: To support myself through trading, not 'getting rich overnight'.
🔥 To you who are also in the low valley: 3 heartfelt words.
The lost money is not money, it's tuition — as long as you are still at the table, there is always an opportunity.
Six months after my liquidation, the new strategy validated with a demo account produced a 23% monthly return. The market never disappoints those who seriously summarize their experiences.
Every step of self-rescue during the low period is paving the way for the future.
The trading notes I write now will become content for a paid course for beginners in the future; the debt repayment record makes me cherish every penny more.
You are stronger than you imagine — only those who have collapsed truly know how to stand up.
The me who felt 'life was over' the night of liquidation can now calmly write these words. Time + action = rebirth.
🌈 The last little ritual: Write to your future self.
(Copy this sentence onto a sticky note and stick it in front of your computer.)
Dear self,
Today's liquidation is not a failure, but the beginning of your transformation.
When you face temptation again, please remember:
Slow is fast, stability leads to winning.
When you get through this period, looking back you will find —
These darkest moments are all the groundwork for future surprises.
The path of a trader is destined to be lonely, but you are not fighting alone.
We are all struggling in the low valley, yet we never give up searching for light.
💪 Keep it up, the sun will rise again tomorrow!