In addition to being 100% an 'i' person, I also have some noticeable ASD traits, but I often manage to make others misjudge me as a big 'E' person. Here are my tips on how to disguise myself as a normal human.

1. Try to avoid relying on 'instant response' social situations

I rarely speak in large groups because fast-paced exchanges among many people easily expose my shortcomings in handling context, emotional shifts, and implied meanings.

Whether online or offline, I prefer to be a questioner. By actively asking questions to control the pace, I can invoke the two basic response presets of 'I understand' and 'I don't understand' to handle over 80% of situations.

In offline settings, if I find myself either not speaking or seeming to speak for too long, meaning I've lost the conversational rhythm, I quickly drink water to force a restart.

2. Use some linguistic tricks when responding to vague concepts and questions

My abstract persona in CT is not something I have constructed, but rather a necessity.

I excel at using general humor to deconstruct the assumptions and emotions implied in vague questions by increasing the linguistic density within a single sentence, piecing together logic and imagery to avoid repetitive questions like 'please define xxx' that kill the mood.

In real life, if I'm faced with small talk like 'what are you doing,' I would use the phrasing 'I am thinking about xxx.' If I encounter topics that I am really not interested in, I allow myself to drift away, listen vaguely, and then respond with 'expressing agreement + repeating the conclusion + providing/mentioning a similar example.'

3. Find your strengths, find your friends

Being sincere and direct will make the right people like you more. Even with someone I just met, I never hesitate to friendly offend a bit to test social boundaries—if they get it and digest it happily, I know I won't need to embellish much in subsequent conversations.

To summarize, the underlying logic of what I call anthropomorphizing skills is actually: to minimize the exposure of ASD traits in social situations without being hypocritical.

So if you have similar concerns, don't be anxious; we will definitely find our frequency in this pulsating world.