Big news! Fooled by my Hong Kong boyfriend and got pregnant!
I am from Shenzhen, and the guy is from Hong Kong (he has the aura of studying in Australia, is a member of a certain association in Fujian, and currently heads a certain organization; his family has certain assets in Hong Kong). In March 2024, I started dating a Hong Kong guy, and by May, we had already met each other's parents. At the beginning, before confirming our relationship, we both promised that we were aiming for marriage, not just playing around. During this period, our relationship was always very good, and I was invited multiple times by his parents to visit and have meals at their home. Around July, we broke up due to a fight for a month, and in August, we got back together. The guy started to set boundaries, and at that time, I still didn't realize that I was already in a manipulated state. Until February 2025, I discovered that I was unexpectedly six weeks pregnant. At that point, the guy did not express any thoughts of not getting married or having kids. Later, as my belly grew larger, it reached a point where I couldn't have a medical abortion and could only undergo induction. Only then did the guy say he would not marry me or take responsibility for the child; it would be completely my responsibility.
During the period of discovering the pregnancy, the guy transferred a total of 4,900 yuan. During the pregnancy, I requested to meet and communicate, but he repeatedly refused. I went to his workplace in Macau to find him, but he hid from me and lied that he was not in Macau, and he didn't give me any travel or hotel expenses.
Now the guy is in a state of refusing to communicate, and I am facing the physical and financial pressures of pregnancy alone, which is a huge burden. Currently, I want to understand the legal differences between the two regions and take legal measures to protect my rights.
I hope my experience can remind my sisters: be cautious when entering a relationship. If there are any sisters with similar experiences or kind people familiar with Hong Kong law, please feel free to DM and share your experiences. Thank you for your warm support.