How many are ready to go to the rooftop?
To those who have lost everything and are still in debt due to trading contracts, to be honest, if you don't have the determination to cut your losses and continue to chase after it, the outcome will be very tragic: you will be ruined!
Looking at the dynamics of so many inexperienced traders these past few days, I deeply understand the pain of falling into an abyss from a good life. This pain is far beyond what words can express. Only those who have gone through it like me can understand. I am already beyond saving, long since a walking corpse; leaving is just a matter of time. But I know many people are in a better situation than I am and have not reached a dead end yet. I hope there are fewer tragedies like mine. So, next comes how to save yourself. If you truly don't want your family to be ruined, if you don't want your wife and children to bear your debts, please make sure to do as I say:
1. Print this sentence out or set it as your phone wallpaper: The same process will inevitably lead to the same result! (Meaning that using the same trading strategy will inevitably result in the same liquidation)
2. Confess to your family, tell them all your debts without hiding anything! Not a single cent should be concealed! On one hand, the family can help share the burden, and more importantly, by saying it out loud, you will no longer feel lonely and distressed; your family will give you time, understanding, and support in the coming years.
3. Hand over all your payment accounts to your family for safekeeping! Mandatory! No negotiations! Note: Never let family members say they trust you and then manage the money themselves; this is very dangerous because a gambling addiction is harder to quit than a drug addiction, and you will always have impulses. You are no longer a rational normal person! You need to let your family know that you can lose control.
4. Spend more time with your family, accompany your parents, wife, and children more. Go grocery shopping and buy daily necessities; feel the value of money and regain a normal perspective on finances.
5. Dedicate all your spare time to improving work skills or investing in side jobs. Think of every possible way to increase your income.
6. Now that you’ve reached this point, as long as you don’t go to jail, any nonsense credit rating is irrelevant; delay as much as possible. There will be plenty of time in the future.
7. Persist for at least six months! Don’t think that six months is long. Think about how long you've been trading contracts? Your years of issues won't correct themselves in a year or so. Six months of effort in side jobs or work will likely yield some results.
If my death can wake some people up, then I have not lived in vain.