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Why do bosses judge some people to be unfit for use based on just one conversation?

Once, a boss had a forced 20-minute chat with a young man, still considering the face of a friend, and the final evaluation was:

This person is dull, lacks charisma, and has not succeeded in past endeavors. Later, this young man founded ByteDance, creating Douyin, TikTok, and Jinri Toutiao. ByteDance is currently the most valuable private tech giant in the world, with a latest valuation soaring to $550 billion (approximately 3.8 trillion RMB). Its core moat lies in the global traffic empire built by "Douyin + TikTok" and the deep empowerment of the content ecosystem and commercialization efficiency through AI large models (like Doubao), demonstrating a strong ability for global expansion and commercial monetization, firmly ranking in the top tier of Chinese internet companies. The fact that a boss judges some people to be unfit for use based on just one conversation is merely the arrogance of many bosses.

Do you look down on those who forgive their wives for cheating?

My friend's wife cheated with a college student who is several years younger than her, but my friend doesn't want to divorce. His wife is quite beautiful and has a nice figure, and people around them are envious.

Sometimes when they go out together, passersby will cast envious glances, so he is reluctant to leave her. Now that his wife is like this, how should I put it, some people advise him to divorce.

Others understand why he doesn't divorce and tell my friend that she is still willing to live with him, so they just get along and carry on.

Where can I meet more girls?

We have a senior in our university who has dated countless girls, almost changing partners every 1-2 months. This is how he operates:

After graduating, he rented a place off-campus and specifically collected used books at a scrap price during his senior year.

During the summer vacation, he refurbished, organized, and categorized them. By the time the new semester started, he advertised on the school forum and BBS, allowing freshmen to buy textbooks from him (our school allows students to purchase their own textbooks).

This way, he could add many junior contacts, and then he would pursue whichever junior he found attractive.

Common tactics include:

It's too hot at school, come study at my place, I have air conditioning; the dormitory doesn't have a water heater, and the bathroom has long queues, come take a shower here before you go back;

There's a good movie or restaurant, would you like to go watch/eat something... And because those who come to buy used books generally aren't from wealthy families, after a few sets of these moves, it's definitely easy to fall for him.

To be honest, is your life easy?\n\nA few years ago, I was eating KFC outside, and to my left, a young couple was resting there with a big bag, not ordering anything.\n\nAlthough I wasn't intentionally eavesdropping, I still overheard their conversation. They were talking about how they had only been working for a month or two, and the factory was withholding their wages, leaving them unable to pay rent, so they were kicked out by their landlord.\n\nThe girl said something that made me feel very sad,\n\nShe said: “I'm a bit hungry; a girl just finished and left her egg tart uneaten. Could you please bring it to me? I'm too embarrassed to go get it.”,\n\nThe boy was silent for a moment, then got up to bring it to her. The girl took a couple of bites and fed the boy, saying, “You haven't eaten anything; have some.”\n\nThe boy took a small bite and told her, “I'm not hungry; you eat. When I get my salary, I'll treat you to a meal. I'm sorry.”\n\nThen the two comforted each other. It reminded me of the days when I first arrived in Shenzhen to work hard. I ordered a family bucket on my phone and also ordered a double meal set,\n\nI noted, “When the staff delivers it, please whisper to them that the store is having a promotion, and it's free, and this is the only time for this promotion, so don’t let them see the receipt.”\n\nAfter placing the order, I was worried whether the staff saw the note, so I went to quietly tell them once again.\n\nTwo staff members came to deliver it, and they separately brought two ice cream cones for them, which was really heartwarming.\n\nI watched from the next table as they panicked, saying they hadn’t ordered anything,\n\nThen they were surprised, trying to decline, continuously thanking, laughing, and gobbling it down, sharing smiles with each other.\n\nMy abilities are limited, and I don’t do much. I wish them a long-lasting relationship, going through storms together, which will surely be unbreakable.

Why do girls wear low-cut clothes and cover up with their hands?

Years ago, when I was still a passionate young man, there was a time when I was having dinner with friends, and a woman brought another woman I didn't know.

Then that unfamiliar girl, wearing a low-cut but relatively large outfit, sat across from me.

Every time I picked up food, as soon as I raised my head, my gaze uncontrollably swept over. The girl noticed and put down her chopsticks, stopped eating, and left with the woman who brought her.

That day, before it got dark, the news about me staring at her chest spread among acquaintances.

Since then, whenever a woman bends over in front of me, I immediately turn my head away to avoid unnecessary trouble.

In boring moments, I deliberately look at more beautiful photos to improve my aesthetic and threshold. Now, when I walk on the street, it's hard to encounter a girl that catches my eye, and I have no interest in staring at any woman.

Recently, I've seen many female streamers with only a few people in their live streams. They stream all night; what are they after?

You know about Douyu's San Sao and her Qi Ge, right? I have her WeChat; we used to have a pretty good relationship. However, before she had plastic surgery, she really looked unique. Now, her face feels more high-tech than before.

At my peak, I had a level 15 fan badge in her live stream.

I never calculated how much I had given her, around 175 or so. Adding in the car lights, the pre-surgery Qi Ge was simply the embodiment of my ideal woman.

Plus, she could take a joke. Before the strict regulations, she dared to respond to any innuendo or color jokes in the Douyu live streams.

The live stream was also quite humorous.

However, she was always just a borderline streamer. After the strict regulations, she wanted to transition to LOL and Hearthstone, but the results were indeed not as fast as her borderline content, and she gradually became an outdated internet celebrity. In her live stream, you could often see comments like 'expired internet celebrities are worse than dogs.' I chatted with her once by chance.

She said that at her peak, she could earn the equivalent of a Mercedes in an hour. At that time, those of us in the streaming circle knew Douyu was washing rice.

I also indirectly warned her not to get involved in that; sooner or later, it would be exposed. She’s considered smart for not participating in Douyu's rice washing. However, her traffic is indeed far less than before, from millions in the live stream to tens of thousands,

then down to thousands. Plus, with the new generation of streamers coming in to grab traffic, Qi Ge has completely faded into the crowd. A few days ago, Qi Ge posted on her Moments that her contract with Douyu had ended, officially bidding farewell to Douyu. I noticed she had been laying out her Douyin strategy for a long time.

I guess the team behind her might let her try Douyin, and I wish her well, as she truly made the young and naive me happy.

What is the greenest hat you have ever seen?

A buddy of mine succeeded in his startup and bought his dream car, a BMW M4. All his friends wanted to borrow it for a spin.

He flat out refused, saying this car was his second wife, and no one else was allowed to drive it except him.

Not long after, his partner slept with his wife and took his M4 for a joyride, crashing it into a greenbelt.

As a follow-up: My buddy's wife also has shares in the company, which were transferred to her during their marriage. She and the partner, who is also an adulterer, teamed up to kick my buddy out.

Currently, both parties are still in a lawsuit.

Today's Topic: Which is more regrettable, losing or not having?

Is it more regrettable to have never had or to have lost what you once had?

In the past, I thought that never having would be more regrettable, but as I age, I now believe that having lost what I once had is more regrettable.

Not having is actually easier to let go of, because the loss is stable; having lost what I once had makes me think about what once belonged to me, and the pain of loss is amplified by the beauty of what I once had, memories are real, and I hold onto the thought of "what if."

Having lost what I once had involves a process that is called having had, and losing what I once had is real pain, the memories are too long.

Because I have loved, I dare not love later people without reservation. I still remember someone privately messaging me saying: "After five years of relationship, he pushed me away with the words 'I don’t want to delay you', with no reason at all. Two years have passed, and I don't know how I survived those days."

If I could start over, I would rather have never had it at all, perhaps I wouldn't be so sad, so hard to endure; let him forever remain beautiful in my heart.

Indeed, having lost what I once had is really painful, making one feel heartbroken and unable to breathe, having so many memories between us, each frame is so distressing, every time I think of it, it feels like a knife cutting my heart, because the same things can no longer be done together.

Just like the quote from "No Longer Human": "In just one night, my heart felt like two different people. He came from the crowd, originally just to give me a false joy. He came with wind and rain, and when he left, the seasons were in chaos, I was difficult to heal after long illness."

Having lost what I once had is like a beam of light shining into my heart but slipping away from my fingertips. I could have endured the darkness if I had never seen the sun. I once passionately resisted the whole world for that beam of light; later, that light disappeared, yet I could not let it go for a long time.

Having exhausted so much courage and drive, I still did not obtain it, and later I no longer had the courage to approach others. Later, we finally understood that perhaps unrequited love is the norm in this world; it is so in movies, and it is the same in reality.

Before the age of 10, I felt like I could reverse the yin and yang, turning back time was always a simple thing.

At 15, I realized that going to internet cafes with friends felt like it could be a lifelong activity.

By the time I was 18, I thought my salary of 800 yuan, spending 600 yuan on dungeon runs, and having 200 yuan left for food was enough.

At 20, I found the future very confusing, and I didn't know what to do with SW.

By 25, I experienced the loss of loved ones, realizing that reversing time isn't as simple as I thought when I was a child. Now that I’m 31, I gradually notice the burdens on my shoulders.

Although I’m not married, the burdens have still come.

Organize some well-known AI specialties to help brothers make better choices, be sure to bookmark to avoid losing it

1. Deepseek: Article, reasoning, coding, an all-round AI assistant.

2. Doubao: Research, chat, write articles, translation, and more, comprehensive functions.

3. Kimi: Handles long articles, can understand and write, specializes in long texts.

4. Wenxin Yige: Baidu AI painting, generates artistic images.

5. Keling: Can turn text and images into videos, produced by Kuaishou.

6. Jianying Professional Edition: Powerful functions, rich materials and effects, easily edit videos.

7. Meitu Xiuxiu AI Painting: Input creative ideas, generate exquisite artworks with one click.

8. iSlide: Create PPTs in one sentence, efficient office work.

9. Jimeng: Generate images with simple descriptions, creative painting.

10. Zhiying: Combines video editing, background removal, and voiceover, beginner-friendly.

My dad is an experienced driver, having driven a taxi for 20 years without ever speeding. One time, stuck in traffic, I asked him why he didn't take a shortcut.

He said: Shortcuts are faster, but they can lead to accidents. A taxi is a lifeline; being steady is more important than being fast.

Later, when I started trading stocks, I learned from him: don't chase trends, be steady and meticulous. While others were losing money, I doubled my profits.

Dad said: Life is like driving; sudden brakes can lead to accidents, and maintaining a steady acceleration is key to reaching the destination.

The ceiling for middle-aged women, happy Goddess Day to all the beautiful ladies:

1. Riding an electric bike worth 1500 yuan to and from work every day, with a salary of about 4500 yuan.

2. One pack of 8 yuan women's cigarettes a day.

3. Soy milk and fried dough sticks for breakfast, a weight loss meal for lunch, and cooking noodles with an egg at home for dinner.

4. Hair volume is decent, getting a haircut for 15 yuan each month, no perm or dyeing.

5. Wearing a dress that costs 99 yuan with free shipping in summer, and a down jacket under 100 yuan in winter.

6. Only wearing canvas shoes, each pair costs around 150 yuan.

7. Basically no socializing, occasionally having a gathering with close friends and drinking a maximum of two glasses of fruit wine.

8. Hobbies: scrolling through Xiaohongshu, binge-watching dramas, and raising succulents.

9. The child studies in another city, and the couple each occupies a bedroom.

10. The mortgage is over 800 yuan, and there is a small electric scooter but it is rarely used.

Chinese-style workplace relationships, I have summarized 12 points, and everyone can add more:

1. The more polite the leader is, the more cautious you should be.
2. The more overtime you work, the slower your promotion will be.
3. Don't tell colleagues your home address.
4. Never inform your family about the year-end bonus in advance.
5. Always prepare three extra versions of the PPT.
6. Don't lend money to the same colleague twice.
7. It's fine to listen to gossip in the break room, but don't get involved.
8. Never ask HR about performance rankings.
9. Don't @ the leader in the group and say "Are you there?"
10. Clean your computer desktop before resigning.
11. Never believe "this is the last time you'll have to work overtime."
12. The company will never be moved by your overtime work.

You are familiar with these Korean phrases:

1. Hello (안녕하세요)
2. Thank you (감사합니다)
3. I love you (사랑해)
4. Delicious (맛있어요)
5. Goodbye (안녕)
6. Awesome (대박)
7. Sorry (미안해)
8. What to do (어떻게 해야 해)
9. Pig (돼지)
10. Everyone (모두)
11. Of course (당연하죠)
12. Good night (잘 자요)
13. Bastard (이놈)
14. Cute (귀여워)
15. Dangerous (위험해)

What is the limit of driving (pun) time?

1. Newbies: Give up after 15 minutes
2. Experienced drivers: 2 hours without blinking
3. Married people: Have to pretend to be working after finishing
4. Students: Must finish before the dorm lights go out
5. Office workers: Sneak in a quickie on the subway
6. Airbag usage: At least three at a time

Someone walked over to 360's boss Zhou Hongyi to propose a toast, but Zhou Hongyi didn't turn his head, not even glancing sideways.

He quickly grabbed a big mouthful of food and started chewing. For a moment, he didn't even need chopsticks, just stuffing his mouth directly.

The person stood awkwardly beside him, holding a wine glass, waiting for Zhou Hongyi to put down his chopsticks, but after waiting for a while, he was ignored, feeling a bit awkward and unsure of how to proceed.

It was quite obvious that Zhou Hongyi didn't want to drink with that person; they weren't even in the same social circle, so what was the point of forcing their way in?

Some people think that by proposing a toast and taking a photo together, they can call each other brothers and easily enter the circle.

What do you all think about this?

The northern temperatures are low, so the nasal bridge is high; the southern climate is humid, so the nasal bridge is short.

One is for smooth breathing, and the other is to prevent excessive moisture from being absorbed into the lungs.

I can understand why in the north, the pubic bone is also high and prominent.

This has nothing to do with temperature; it must be something different that was seen in the picture.

I found it strange, so I posted it here; it is a real woman. Not modified.