In the adult world, making a living is what brings dignity: 'First make a living, then seek love.' The greatest sense of security for adults is having extra money and a relaxed mind. Don't be pretentious, don't be sentimental. Focus on making money. Then you can mourn the spring and lament the autumn. Earning money is the foundation of adulthood. Making money is hard work. Not having money is even more torturous. Once someone has experienced the hardships of being broke, they will understand.
Life is not just about making money, but making money is for a better life. Earning money can cure all pretentiousness.