Active abandonment is the ultimate plunder. True strong individuals never rebuild their dynasty on the ruins; instead, they change the battlefield directly. The moment you grit your teeth and say, 'I accept it,' the gears of fate begin to turn in reverse. The highest level of self-discipline for adults consists of three relationships: First, only select without educating, treating others like nurturing flowers. I water them simply because I enjoy the way sunlight penetrates the veins of the leaves, regardless of whether they bloom or not; Second, regarding obsessions, allow everything to be as it is, even the act of letting go feels excessive; Third, concerning the cost of silence, like investments falling below the stop-loss line, experts never fantasize about rebounds, but instead immediately change their portfolio. Now here comes the key point: those relationships, careers, and obsessions that keep you awake at night are actually you continuously providing energy. When you say, 'I don't want it anymore,' the universe will automatically match you with more suitable options.