You lost and your wallet is empty and I can't act and it's a disaster and it led to problems
Please don't handle the mistake with a bigger mistake
Sorry for taking too long
I will tell you my story that I am telling for the first time, but because I feel for you and your situation right now, and I don't want you to act wrongly
I was a very successful person in my academic and professional life
I obtained a master's degree in international relations and then a doctorate in international economic law
I used to work while studying at university until I gained experiences related to my field and took many courses over time until I reached leadership positions at the age of 30, I became a consultant in the field.
After that, I decided to leave the job, and since I am not committed and have postponed the idea of marriage, I decided to use the marriage money along with other funds (to avoid sharing and its effects) and I started to open a private company that was achieving high success and spread, but soon I faced problems, the most important of which were betrayals from close employees whom I helped and trusted (and that was the biggest mistake of my life that I learned from).
The collapse began and then the company closed.
Its effects were psychologically difficult; I could have stood up and returned again, but I surrendered, especially since I was alone. There was no one around me, and if there was someone, no one would do anything for you, nor point you to the right path.
It was during my master's study, as I knew how to do fundamental analysis of companies, I decided to study technical analysis, and in parallel, I was investing in the stock market with very small amounts.
During my education, I entered and decided to increase the capital.
And after the collapse of my project and my bad psychological state, I sat without knowing how to work or deal with anyone.
And suddenly I received an amount that was due from someone, and he decided to return it.
I deposited 90% of it in stocks and began to achieve profits and double the portfolio, then it would drop, and I would go back again, and so on.
All this while I was following cryptocurrencies, but I didn't start trading except with a very small amount.
I relied on my income from profits.
But my problem is that I was very, very extravagant, and although most of it was for good, it was not personal expenses, but it was still a big mistake. There is a saying: (Take from the hill and it will be taken from you.)
And I didn’t understand this until I was reviewing the Quran, as I was memorizing it, and I was surprised in Surah Al-Isra at this verse:
(And do not make your hand [as] chained to your neck or extend it completely, so you sit condemned and insolvent.)
As if I am reading it for the first time in my life!
This describes me exactly and describes what really happened!
And that was when I reached a state of complete collapse and confusion that we will reach shortly.
The important thing is that I continued in the stock market, and over time there was a sharp decline, and I knew how to relatively treat the issue, but (sometimes there is a drop that no one expects at all, neither fundamental nor technical nor news-based, nor anything).
Until we reached a point where there was a greater drop after the first drop.
At that time, the solution was to go out to preserve the remaining.
But it was a large amount, and I was planning to rise psychologically and know how to start getting an apartment and gold and look for a righteous girl.
But still nothing happened, and things got worse.
I waited for calm and stability, and it came to me, and I entered.
And the same goes for starting to show losses.
But: for the same mistake that I made before, I count and act extravagantly.
The greatest disaster and the biggest mistake I made was here.
That I received money at that time, but it is not mine.
The concerned party decided to leave me the freedom in how to retain.
He told me, 'Look at how much Bitcoin has reached; oh, if only I had invested with it.'
I told him, 'Indeed, you are right, but I am trading primarily in the stock market, but with a small amount of cryptocurrencies.'
My problem is that I traded with someone else's money alongside my money.
And this is what everyone must know; do not, do not do that, even if you are sure of a billion percent profit.
I was guaranteed and working well, but suddenly due to some news there was a drop.
Normally, I have no problem at all, and I will know how to deal.
But I was put in a problem: the money is required on a specific date.
The drop happened suddenly, a week before the date!
And I, after two weeks or more at most, will have completed the correction, and it will also return to my prices.
(If it were just my money, I wouldn’t have worried and would have left it comfortably.) I am confident that it will increase.
Here I fell into the trap.
I fell into the real problem.
The blindness of insight and lack of reason, and emotions completely controlled me.
And I became not myself.
I don’t know how to act, should I go borrow? How should I pay them? Should I tell him and wait? I couldn’t think or do anything.
I had very few acquaintances because my time was for work and study, and all relationships were just work.
I talked to someone and two, no one is around.
Although the missing number was not very large.
Blindness connected me as I know how to deal and enter futures to quickly recover.
But with emotion and lack of thinking, there is no right action; loss increases and the amount grows!!!!! I go back to look for solutions.
There is nothing.
I go back and the same thing happens.
Until I decided to stop and go see even a loan by any means.
I couldn’t.
I confronted the person, talked to him, and gave him the rest of his money on the basis that I would be in debt for it.
The loss of deals was in the thousands of dollars.
I felt that the world was destroyed and darkened, and I didn't know what to do or how to solve the problem, and the devil is taking control of you.
Of course, this happened, and I fell into a deep sadness and depression that cannot be described.
After a few days, I got physically tired! A sudden pain, and suddenly my leg couldn't support me, as if it were paralysis.
And I was sick for a week, unable to move, and there was no one from your family who knows about your condition, nor anyone visited you or came to take you to the doctor.
I was always doing good with anyone and helping anyone, whether in my work or any place, or relatives or acquaintances or neighbors.
And I was very generous to the extent that it amazed them (but I discovered that it was not right) and that it was extravagance.
And if someone asked me for something, if I could, by Allah, I would never delay.
If someone asked for something worth 1, I would give him 5 or more.
But what if you fall?
By Allah, I never found anyone, even by asking or checking on you, even the closest to you, except for one or two who said, 'How are you?' and that’s it.
On the contrary! I didn’t get anything from those I did good to except betrayal, treachery, or stabbing in the back, or speaking ill, or slandering you in your absence.
And the people who were gathered around you because of your condition or situation and that they were with you and benefiting from you.
When circumstances change, you will not find anyone.
And as Allah, the Exalted, said: (So you will sit condemned and insolvent.)
If extravagance hadn’t existed, there would have been at least a part to support you, because when this happens, you will find blame and regret.
Indeed, if someone from your relatives had spoken to you about the good you did, he would have blamed you for why you did this and why you did that, and if you hadn’t done it, you would have been like this.
I remained in a cycle of confusion and stagnation, not knowing what to do, how to think, where to go, and how to start.
Until over time I began to recover and regain myself slowly and learn from my mistakes.
That's why know that no one will support you, no matter who it is.
After the father and mother.
I wish they had been present; they would have eased my burden at that time.
But thanks to Allah, I understood and woke up more.
And for more than two years, thank God, things have been improving.
But I became a different person in my entire life, and many things appeared to me that I hadn’t seen, and I learned many, many lessons.
Here my story ended.
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And I wished at that time that I could find someone to tell me what I wanted to say to you; it would have made a huge difference to me, and the matter wouldn’t have taken long, nor its consequences extended from worse to worse.
Oh brother and sister.
What happened happened; your anger will neither advance nor delay anything.
God has decreed what He wills.
I was put in a huge situation and disaster.
You lost because you were put in this situation, it was destined for you.
Your anger will not yield results except that it harms you; it will not bring any benefit.
Calm down, please calm down.
Your breakdown and your condition, if you do not control them, can make you suffer; you might get sick, God forbid.
Seek refuge in Allah from the accursed devil.
And drive away his whispers.
And say, 'Thank God, and the world is not over; think rationally and deal with balance.'
Do not try to fix a mistake with a bigger mistake; do not go to borrow, nor sell gold, nor take any irrational action just to say I will compensate. Here, emotions are moving you; calm down and act rationally.
You will face the problem and its effects, but not in the bad way you imagine or in the darkness you see.
Turn to our Lord and have faith and trust, and by Allah, then by Allah, you will be amazed at the wonders, and you will see how it will be solved.
And you will return again to be better than before.
Having good thoughts about Allah and asking from our Lord will never disappoint you.
Don't fall into the devil's trap:
Why, O Lord, why me? And the rest.
And always remember God's saying: (He is not asked about what He does, but they will be asked.)
Thank Allah that your disaster was in a matter of this world, and He did not make your disaster in your religion, and know that no matter how big your problem is, there are people whose problems are many times worse than yours.
And know that trials require patience, and you will be rewarded for it, God willing, and this is a test for you, so be calm, patient, and seek reward.
Allah, the Exalted, said: And We will surely test you with something of fear and hunger and a loss of wealth and lives and fruits, and give good tidings to the patient * who, when disaster strikes them, say, 'Indeed, we belong to Allah, and indeed, to Him we will return.' * Those are upon whom are blessings from their Lord and mercy, and it is those who are rightly guided.
And Allah said: (And We will surely test you with evil and good as a trial, and to Us you will be returned.)
And Allah said: ((And We sent to nations before you, and We seized them with hardship and adversity that perhaps they might humble themselves.))
And the Prophet, peace be upon him, said: (No harm befalls a Muslim, nor fatigue, nor sorrow, nor harm, nor grief, not even the prick of a thorn, but Allah expiates some of his sins for that.)
And the Prophet, peace be upon him, said:
(Amazing is the affair of the believer, all his affairs are good, and that is not for anyone except the believer; if he is afflicted with a blessing, he is grateful, and that is good for him, and if he is afflicted with a hardship, he is patient, and that is good for him.)
And the Prophet, peace be upon him, said:
(The greatness of the reward comes from the greatness of the trial, and when Allah loves a people, He tests them, so whoever is pleased has the pleasure, and whoever is angry has the anger.)
And he also says:
(No one of you should wish for death because of a harm that has befallen him; if he is a doer of good, perhaps he may increase in goodness, and if he is a wrongdoer, perhaps he may repent.)
And you should pray, as the Prophet, peace be upon him, said:
(O Ever-Living, O Sustainer, I seek Your mercy; rectify all my affairs for me, and do not leave me to myself even for the blink of an eye. Narrated by Tirmidhi, and it is authentic.)
And the Prophet, peace be upon him, said:
(O Allah, there is no ease except what You have made easy, and You make sadness, if You wish, easy.)
I ask Allah, the Exalted, to relieve your worries, to ease your distress, and to grant you wellness in this world and the Hereafter.
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