The essence of a licker is inferiority, a desire to be loved, a desire to be cared for, so he is willing to use a lower posture to exchange the other person's emotions. I have been an inferior person since I was a child. It can be said that most of my life has been spent on learning to overcome my inferiority.

I try to make more money to make myself financially independent, I try to read more books to enrich my inner world, and I try to focus more of my life on improving myself. After working hard for a while, I thought I had become a person with a rich spiritual world and a strong core.

Obviously I didn't. After a relationship, I completely exposed the nature of my inferiority. Fortunately, I may have improved compared to before, but the fact is that I am trying to use a lower posture to exchange for the other person's emotions.

I know that loving yourself is the best solution for life, but this thing is harder to practice than climbing to the sky for people with inferiority.