Life advice: Don't be afraid of challenges.
People who are afraid of challenges don't lead good lives.
Often, the more afraid you are of something, the more likely you are to stumble in that area. I fear that I won't handle interpersonal relationships well, which has led me to become a people-pleaser, caught in a vicious cycle of internal strife and lack of respect. I fear that I will achieve nothing, so I try to grasp onto my studies, work, and love, but everything ends up going poorly; I fear that my knowledge is limited and my abilities are lacking, so I hesitate to present myself in front of others, causing me to miss one opportunity after another.
Fear is like a mantra that gradually transforms into a psychological suggestion for avoidance. Many times, it's not that I can't do something, but rather that I gradually lose the courage to act due to the inferiority of 'I am afraid' and 'maybe I should just give up.' When I confront everything with a fearless attitude, all my fears are resolved.
Don't be afraid of being judged.
When I began to interact with others without fearing their judgment, I broke the bad habit of subconsciously pleasing others. I reject unreasonable demands and push back against words and actions that make me uncomfortable. I no longer deprive myself to beg for friendship, nor do I care what others think of me or how they evaluate me. I have started to express my happiness or unhappiness bravely, showcasing my personal charm, and in turn, have gained respect and made many like-minded friends.
Don't be afraid to step out of your comfort zone.
In the face of life's difficulties, I no longer complain but instead bravely overcome myself. I started going to the library alone, seeking out institutions for further studies, and attending classes by myself; I began trying out self-media, overcoming the bad habit of inconsistent effort, developing my online awareness, and learning knowledge and writing skills; I started opening my heart to accept others' love and kindness and learning how to love others in return. I am grateful for my courage to try, which has led to the current growth in my career, studies, and love life. My life is gradually getting on track and moving forward steadily.
Don't be afraid of losing face.
When I stopped fearing embarrassment, I grew significantly. I worked seriously on group projects, bravely presented my work, and no longer feared whether others thought I was an attention-seeker; I actively communicated with teachers, unafraid that my questions might seem foolish; I persisted in attending entrepreneurship training organized by the school without caring about my roommates' mockery.
Don't be afraid of conflicts.
I don't seek trouble, nor do I fear it. When faced with issues, I solve them without self-blame or internal conflict. I no longer fear conflicts with others; I have come to understand that to become a qualified adult, I must first learn to establish and uphold my own boundaries. When it’s time to discuss interests, I cannot show leniency; when it’s time to face opponents, I cannot offer a smile. All conflicts are battles of interest. If I am afraid and retreat, others will see my cowardice, seize the opportunity, and take away what belongs to me!
If you're afraid of wolves in front and tigers behind, you'll end up achieving nothing. Only by facing challenges without complaining, retreating, or finding them troublesome, treating them as gifts from heaven, and continuously reflecting and improving yourself, can you become more complete.#美国加征关税 #加密市场回调 #币安Alpha上新 $BTC $BNB $SOL
