š© "Why Do I Always HOLD Losing Trades⦠But EXIT the Winners So Fast?"
I used to ask myself this every single day.
"Why am I holding losing trades that are thousands in the red⦠but I can't hold a winning trade for more than 5 minutes?"
It felt like a curse.
But it wasnāt a curse ā it was a pattern.
A destructive cycle caused by fear, confusion, and a lack of structure.
And honestly? Most traders fall into it.
š„ What I Learned (The Hard Way)
š« Stop Loss ā Risk Management
Just because you use a stop loss doesn't mean you're managing risk.
If your stop is based on fear or guesswork, you're not managing risk ā you're gambling.
That leads to:
ā Tight stops that get wicked out.
ā Holding losers way too long.
ā Cutting winners early out of panic.
You're not trading ā you're reacting.
And reactions kill accounts.
š Why You Hold Losers & Cut Winners
It all comes down to one word: conviction.
And conviction comes from clarity.
If youāre not:
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Analyzing higher time frames
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Mapping market structure
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Pre-planning your setups
...youāre flying blind.
So you hope losers bounce and doubt winners will last.
Thatās not trading. Thatās survival mode.
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What Changed Everything For Me
I use higher time frames to find real structure and momentum.
I let price action, not fear, place my stops.
I pre-plan my take profits ā and trust the setup.
If it hits my stop? I move on. No emotion. No story.
š” The Market Isnāt Out to Get You
It just punishes poor planning and emotional decisions.
But once you start treating trades like strategic executions ā not emotional reactions ā everything changes.
Youāll stop holding losers.
Youāll start riding winners.
And trading will feel calm, clear, and powerful.
š Follow me if this hit home. Youāre not alone ā but you do need a plan.