When men are alive, very few people truly care about you, and after you die, very few will remember you. Believe me, except for illness, all the pain you feel is not worth it. The two things you should care about are your money and your health. This little piece of advice is meant to help you: First, economic independence is really important. At any time, you should have the ability to pay for what makes your heart flutter, and no situation should intimidate you because of the price. Do not become a disgruntled person who blames the heavens. Your talents will shine in your career, and you will definitely be graceful and composed in life. Second, do not try to change anyone. Pigs will mock you for not having big enough ears. Mice think that those who cannot burrow are worthless. Between people, there is an even greater divide called values. Face differences with kindness, respond to criticism with a smile, respect others, but stay true to yourself. Third, do not let others define you. If you care too much about others' opinions, you will definitely have to give up your principles. If you bend over backwards to please others, you can only compromise yourself. Rather than living under someone else's label, it is better to live by your own definition. Fourth, invest generously in yourself; a man's money should be spent on himself. This doesn't mean you should indulge in extravagance or hedonism, but rather spend money in places that create value. Investing in your brain means enriching your soul with your understanding and knowledge. Investing in vision allows the stars and oceans and the auroras and snow-capped mountains to embellish your experiences. Investing in hobbies makes life, which is inherently dull, turn beautiful because of passion. Fifth, in any relationship, when fate comes to an end, diligence will also be exhausted. So do not ask why, and even less so, ask on what basis. Exit politely, return others to others, and return yourself to yourself; let flowers be flowers and trees be trees. The questions you cannot understand will be answered by time. So, do not look for evidence of your partner's lack of love when they love you, and do not look for traces of their past existence when they love you. Finally, I want to say that the road of life is bustling and crowded.