Many people tease me, but it doesn't matter, I can say I'm settled down.

This is how things are between us: he is 35, I am 24. His family is in a hurry for him to get married, and my family is urging me too. Plus, I've lost money in cryptocurrency, so I don't have much to be excited about anymore. He doesn't interfere much in my life because he feels like a traditional man who goes to work regularly and then gets married and has children. We get along very well, so we first decided to get engaged, and then we will hold the wedding during this year's National Day. Later on, I will have to have children for his family... I once asked if not having children was an option. He said he definitely wants kids, and his parents want grandchildren, so once we get married, we will probably start preparing for pregnancy.

Who knows, in a year or two, I might be a mother. His family is okay, at least I won't worry about raising kids; I won't have to stress about my child needing to drink air. So, I will have kids for his family. As for me, if the conditions are good, I can have children; if I can't find good conditions, I won't. My own good life is secondary; my child must live well.

Whether a boy or a girl, his family doesn't worry. Having a son is within his capability, and his family can afford housing and the bride price. Having a daughter can also come with a dowry. So I've decided to be with him... to marry him and have his children. As for love, it's just like that; at a certain age, love takes a back seat, and conditions come first.