You can't choose your family of origin, but you can choose your marriage. Divorce indicates there are issues, so don't treat it lightly as a joke.
That day I came across a video of a delivery guy from Taizhou who married a chicken. After marriage, the chicken didn't manage the household and spent extravagantly, causing him much suffering.
Marriage isn't just about finding a wife for yourself; it's also about finding a mother for your children, a home for your family.
I know some coal barons who, in their early years, casually took mistresses, but felt guilty towards their children and said that even mistresses should be carefully selected.