The Wisdom of Being Human
Smart people do not get too close to anyone,
because they understand that closeness leads to disrespect, and when things reach an extreme, they will reverse.
I wonder if everyone has noticed
there is always a phenomenon in life
where a couple of people or a few individuals, during a certain period,
have a very close relationship, wishing they could 'share the same bowl when eating and the same bed when sleeping', with no secrets between them, talking about everything, even closer than brothers.
But after a while, it seems there is some estrangement between them. On the surface, they are still good friends, good buddies, just like before, but each feels awkward inside, and neither understands why they can't return to the way things were, losing the previous tacit understanding and trust.
Over time, they drift further apart, no longer in contact with each other. Occasionally, when they meet at a reunion, they intentionally avoid each other, and if they can't avoid it, they remain silent, not speaking to one another.
This is what Guiguzi said: closeness leads to disrespect, and when things reach an extreme, they will reverse. Therefore, if you want your interpersonal relationships to be more harmonious, you must follow this principle: do not get too close to anyone, nor too far away; maintaining a subtle distance is the key to harmonious coexistence among people.
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