When traders understand that aside from seeking macro probability advantages, we have no real power over the market. They realize that profitable trades come from the trades where we typically incur losses; avoiding losses is equivalent to avoiding profits! If we say at this point that traders have 'fallen in love with your losses', it might seem a bit exaggerated.
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But at the very least, one should achieve 'letting gains and losses come naturally, with a heart free of increase or decrease.' Do you understand what this means? This has reached the highest realm of trading that I know: letting go of trading and stepping out of the market. This is a sign of spiritual maturity and requires a long period of refinement.
In terms of trading results, traders have transformed from 'reliance' to 'going with the flow.' In terms of trading belief, traders have shifted from 'confrontation and struggle' with the market to 'inclusiveness and integration.'