The best way to break the circle is to cultivate yourself deeply!
Don't ask outside, don't rely on a certain teacher, a certain noble person, or a certain project to save you. In fact, 100% of your pain comes from within yourself, not from outside.
Being anxious alone will not help. The core method is to do it. No matter how many thoughts you have without action, it is worthless. It is just a waste of energy in walking through a maze!
Sometimes we need to seek pain autonomously, then reflect and do it in order to make progress. It doesn’t matter if you don’t understand, and it doesn’t matter if you don’t have resources. As long as you are open-minded enough, continue to learn, and extend the time, you will have it in 5, 10, or 20 years.
Sometimes it’s faster to take your time!