My important understanding of human nature after I turned 30 is that unless the other party explicitly asks for advice, or sincerely comes to ask for advice for a fee, I try to restrain myself from actively giving advice and help to the other party. There are three reasons:

1. Self-protection: The most common people who are bitten are often not hunters, but veterinarians.

2. Self-esteem: Uninvited help often hurts the other party's self-esteem.

3. Self-help: You can't wake up someone who pretends to be asleep. If the other party doesn't intend to change, no matter how much effort you put in, it will be a waste of time. No matter how much help you give, the other party will not thank you.

I don't want everyone to be cold-blooded, I just want to remind you, "If you want to do good things, you must have strategies first!" I didn't understand this before I was 30, and I suffered a lot of losses. I was obviously doing good for others, but I accidentally offended many people. If you like to teach others, you will inevitably make enemies everywhere. Most people don't need help from others, as long as they have an outlet to vent their emotions, accompany them to have a meal and chat, and comfort their mood, which is far more practical than giving any help or advice.

Let go of the desire to help others and respect the fate of others. Before you help the mud up the wall, have you asked the mud for its opinion? Did the mud speak to you? If you don't help him, what else can you do but be a slut? Mud rotting on the ground can nourish flowers, why do you help him up the wall?

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