The Truths Discovered in Middle Age

1. 99.999% of people are just cattle and horses in this life.

2. There are three opportunities to change one's fate in life: education, marriage, and self-awareness.

3. Be good to your wife and children; one will accompany you to the hospital in the future, and the other will need to sign for you when you're offline.

4. The more familiar people are around you, the stronger the sense of comparison and jealousy.

5. Of those who don't reply to messages, 90% don't want to respond, rather than not seeing them.

6. If you have hated the same person for years, it only means you haven't made much progress yourself during that time.

7. Others' self-deprecating remarks are fine to listen to, but don't foolishly agree with them.

8. Those who talk a lot, make many mistakes, and create much gossip; a silent fish is the least likely to get caught by a hook.

9. The rule of 'people leave, tea gets cold' applies everywhere in the world.

10. No matter how difficult it gets, don't work for your relatives!

11. No matter how big someone else's roof is, it’s not as good as having your own broken umbrella.

12. Problems that can be solved with money shouldn't rely on human relationships; problems that can be solved with sweat shouldn't rely on tears.