Not long ago, I just didn't have time to deal with it; I didn't die, nor did I tacitly accept those distorted rumors.
Under the premise of mutual respect, I am a polite person. If one day I am rude, then please look in the mirror.
I blocked this so-called K-line master born in '98 but actually '88. There are some things I only told her, but when I heard the embellished version from others, at that moment I just felt disgusted, so there's no need for any verification (and please don't cry in the live broadcast asking why I didn't seek verification from you; it's really unnecessary), because I have principles in my dealings, and I value character in friendships.
I initially thought blocking her would be a dignified end because I felt that since we are not on the same path, we shouldn't play together. But I was naive; she began to distort the truth and smear me in various gatherings and group chats online and offline.
Here I am, just like Yanchi, being slandered by her outside, saying that I 'like her'. At first, I was inexplicably encouraged by people offline, telling me to 'be more proactive' and 'the master is a girl'. I found it very perplexing and bluntly stopped it, saying it doesn't exist, because I thought everyone was just joking around. Until she started deceiving my friends around me. In March this year, during the Jeju Island event, I didn't go, but a brother of mine, with whom I've had a good relationship for many years, went. She led and deceived my friend, saying: she was about to get together with me, causing my friend to arrange a hotel and restaurant for her after returning to the country; she privately messaged my fans in the comment section and chatted with my fans for two hours (which shows how outrageous it is). This absurd behavior made me feel for the first time her character issues.
Later I learned about the events between her and Yanchi. She told all our brothers who work at the square, even flew to Bangkok to cry to Guozi, but she deliberately avoided me, so I was kept in the dark until I met Yanchi offline and learned about all these operations and details.
Moreover, before this, I had talked to her multiple times about her excessive interference, crossing boundaries, and invading my life. She even debated late at night with many mutual friends whether she had crossed the line, and everyone gave a unified and clear answer. Yet she remains shameless, with no moral bottom line, boldly asking in front of my girlfriend, 'How do you think my photo with your boyfriend looks?'
Today's response is a result of her repeatedly crying in live broadcasts, smearing offline, and demanding our mutual friends to 'choose one side'. I have no desire to slander or hurt her, otherwise, I wouldn't only have this short narrative. Sometimes I hate my own thin skin; clearly, she betrayed me and spread yellow rumors first, yet I repeatedly retreated to seek dignity, even to this day, I don't want to bring these private matters to the forefront.
Looking back now, this is a game that was laid out from the very beginning. She was just too anxious and wanted to make up for the events that happened in the Chinese-speaking world over the past decade in just over half a year, making it convenient for herself to talk freely in future conversations, instead of being a sidekick, seeking to be known, and wanting a photo together. I should have realized that someone who relies on leaking the privacy of other influencers to establish relationships could possibly understand the words 'trust' and 'integrity'.
I have always cared about boundaries and politeness, but she repeatedly crossed the line: privately fabricating our relationship and deceiving my longtime friends to arrange her schedule; spreading rumors and provoking in public, even repeatedly crying in live broadcasts, asking our mutual friends to 'choose one side'. These actions made me clearly see that she treats others' trust as a bargaining chip for exchanges and rumors as tools for self-packaging. Rather than continuing to entangle, it's better to block her completely.
So I also remind everyone: If you want the whole circle to know something, then tell her; otherwise, never do it. I have already told her some relatively private and secret things, and at this moment, many people probably already know, but there's no need to worry too much. Just like there's only one A Hong in Nanjing, there's only one Hong Jie in the cryptocurrency circle; apart from her, everyone else is normal.
As a yellow-skinned Chinese person, I see no sense of propriety, morality, or shame in her bones. She is both pitiful and selfish, simultaneously lacking love and being sensitive.
True friends respect boundaries and value character. If someone uses your privacy as a topic of conversation, it's worth keeping your distance.