In the past, every loss in a trade felt like the sky was falling.
I stared at the market chart, my heart in turmoil: "I blew my account again. Maybe I'm not cut out for trading? Maybe I'll never be able to make consistent profits?"
I know that feeling—going to bed at night with a heavy heart, waking up in the morning with the first thought being: "What if the market empties me out again?"
But the truth is: blowing an account is not because the market is 'garbage', but because I lack a trading system, and no one around me told me a simple truth—that losses in trading are inevitable.
Losses are part of the game. The key is not to avoid losses, but to learn to control them.
When I stopped frequently going all-in and started trading systematically, my anxiety disappeared.
I now clearly know how much loss I can bear on each trade. I understand that losses won’t wipe out my position. This brought me peace.
But to be honest, it took me a long time to understand these things.
Without a guide, I could only stumble in the dark, losing money and wasting time.
So if you are currently suffering from blowing your account—this is normal.
This shows that you have the will to preserve your capital and grow your assets.
But precisely at this point, you need someone to walk with you.
You need someone who can lead you forward, point out mistakes, and prevent you from spending years trying to find a system through trial and error.
Blowing an account is not a death sentence. The real death sentence is to remain in chaos, bearing it alone.
