Aesthetics is the hardest ability to acquire.
With aesthetics, one naturally knows how to communicate with others, how to make choices, and how to act. Knows when to speak, what to say, where to pause, and what words and tones to use. In the face of complex people and situations, there is rarely hesitation or wandering; every choice is clear and distinct.
To acquire aesthetics, professional training is certainly useful, but it only provides aesthetics in professional fields. For example, aesthetics in music, painting, literature, logic, mathematics, and physics. Even studying philosophy is limited to aesthetics within the realm of philosophy.
To obtain aesthetics for the entirety of life, from the grand to the minute, from the abstract to the concrete details of daily life, is much more difficult. This universal aesthetics is at least related to one quality, which is honesty. This honesty is not about not telling lies, but about being honest with oneself.
