Hello everyone, I am trader Zhu Yidan. I traveled to Shenzhen and then to Wuhan these past few days, met new friends, and saw old friends. Although the journey was tiring, I enjoyed it.
Roughly calculated, I've been in this industry for almost 3 years. In this industry, which is closest to money, everyone is truly talented, speaking pleasantly, and each has their own merits. What you hear from others is different from what you see yourself. A negative character you hear about may turn out to be quite agreeable when you actually meet them, while someone praised for their straightforwardness may be the most deceitful. Don’t listen to what others say, but observe what they do.
To understand a person, one must look at their core character, which reveals itself during low points, anger, and stress. This is the most basic and stable aspect of their personality. Some people are inherently kind, with a sense of responsibility deeply rooted within them, and even in the toughest times, they won’t cross the line and do something against their conscience. In contrast, some people who appear straightforward and cheerful may evade responsibility and turn their backs on others when faced with a crisis, even resorting to unscrupulous means.
The sense of security in any relationship does not come from commitment, but from seeing the trustworthy character beneath. As the saying goes, 'A long road tests a horse's strength, and time reveals a person's heart.'
Observe people when overlooked.
Observe people after drinking.
Observe people under financial and emotional pressure.