"If you grab a frog, put it in a pot of water, and put it over the fire, you will observe something interesting: the frog adapts to the temperature of the water, stays inside, and continues to adapt to the increasing temperature.
But when the water reaches the boiling point, the frog that would like to jump out of the pot cannot. Because it is too weak and tired from the efforts it has made to adapt to the temperature.
Some would say that what killed the frog was the boiling water... in reality, what killed the frog was its inability to decide WHEN to jump.
So stop "adapting" to wrong situations, abusive relationships, parasitic friends, and many other things that "heat you up". If you continue to adapt, you run the risk of "dying" inside.
Jump as soon as you can!
Author: Peter Senge