The market is bad, I arranged to have late-night snacks with my college roommate.

He told me he just broke up recently, giving his ex-girlfriend 100,000 as a breakup fee, and even gave her that BMW 3 Series, fearing she would be inconvenienced without a car.

His girlfriend isn't even that good-looking, taking so much from him is like throwing it away. He himself is also trying to save face, and it seems that people like him are not uncommon in reality.

Because I look harmless, I have always had good luck with women. Sometimes girls share their little secrets with me, and I often hear them say that a certain guy transferred her 200,000 at once to make her his girlfriend.

Last year, I chatted with a woman from the crypto circle, and she said she knew a big shot in the crypto world who was scammed out of 10 million by a girl. This year, a prominent figure was scammed out of 200 million and briefly made the hot search.

Most men in the crypto circle are homebodies, lacking experience in relationships. Many of the top big shots' wives or girlfriends also look quite ordinary. When God opens a window for you to earn money, he might close the window for you to find love.

These days, I saw tweets about a guy named Fan Shao, saying he even splits the rent and doesn’t give girls money in Singapore, just pulls up his pants and leaves. I initially took it as a joke.

I met this person once this year in Hong Kong; it was at a Huobi event, and he brought a girl with him, a campus beauty, her face completely natural, with a student vibe.

Fan Shao spends all his time and energy on himself, packaging himself, taking photos with luxury cars, and showcasing gold cards, which is similar to how girls do makeup and beauty enhancements.

This is what the founder Tong Jincheng said, money is for women to see, not for women to spend.

When you make money, first buy yourself some branded clothes and shoes, a watch, and a Mercedes-Benz E300 is enough, don’t buy a sports car, as ordinary good girls might be scared when they see it.

Buy a high-end Leica or Hasselblad camera, open Xiaohongshu and search for local internet celebrity photo spots; many young and beautiful girls come here to take pictures every day. Just say you are a photography novice and can help take photos for free, just to practice. After taking the photos, add her WeChat to send them to her. By the end of the day, you can meet many girls.

Writing all this is to tell my brothers, if you are going to date, date the most beautiful one, treat her like a treasure, while others are just riding their bikes.