A friend once told me:
“My marriage was fixed… but I broke it off.”
I asked why. He said,
“My father was sick. Her family visited him—brought nothing, not even fruits. My father said, ‘If they are this careless now, imagine later.’ So, I ended it.”
I asked, “Do you know their financial condition?”
He replied, “They’re poor. They barely manage two meals a day.”
And I said:
“If you knew they were poor, do you realize what pain your decision caused that girl and her parents? Rejected—just because they’re struggling?”
Dear friends,
When an engagement breaks from the girl’s side, society whispers: “There must be something wrong with her.”
But when a boy walks away, he says with pride: “She wasn’t my type.”
Hey man, if she wasn’t your type, why say yes in the first place?
Decline respectfully. Silently.
Who gave you the right to insult, gossip, or shame an innocent girl?
God forbid—if the same thing happens to your daughter… would you stay silent?
Stop this cruelty.
To every young man out there:
Don’t reject a girl because she’s poor.
Don’t toy with her dignity.
Respect her emotions.
Because remember—
She is the mother of humanity.
She is your mother, your sister, your wife… your daughter.
And Paradise lies at her feet. 💔✨
