$BTC šš³Cultivating children to succeed is a process of "treasure hunting," not "sculpting"š³š
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Understanding: The process of educating children should be a treasure hunting process, not a sculpting process.
What is this concept? If you want to educate your child to be successful, you must have a philosophy, which is that every child has their own characteristics, and these characteristics are different from other children. As long as you find your child's strengths, traits, and interests, it will be very easy for you to cultivate them into a successful person.
The entire process of this discovery is akin to a treasure hunt, so it requires your companionship, dedication, inspiration, and nurturing. It is essential to create such an environment for the child to discover their strengths, while most parents tend to use a sculpting approach and apply the same standard.
For example, if your child excels academically, you might treat them like a piece of wood or an ingredient, constantly chiseling away at them. You think you can carve a statue like other masters, one that commands respect, or create a craft that becomes more valuable. However, you forget that you have never learned how to carve. You are destroying and wasting this material, and while it is clearly your lack of ability, you blame the material for not being good enough.
In summary, capable parents can shape their children according to their own wishes, but the prerequisite is that you must have this ability.
For most parents, if you want to cultivate your child to succeed, you should use a treasure-hunting approach, which means looking for your child's strengths, talents, and interests. Only in this way can we help every child succeed.
