In this world, too many loves do not fail because of betrayal, but because of 'helplessness'.
You can't settle in the city she loves, can't take on an unexpected surgery for her parents, can't take her to see the sea, the stars, the aurora, and can't say to her when she is overwhelmed by reality, 'Quit your job, I will support you.'
The most painful thing about loving someone is not that you can't give her romance, but that you watch her be worn down by life, without any power to fight back.
So you work hard to earn money, not out of greed, not to prove anything to anyone, but because you know—true love needs confidence.
She is not materialistic, but she deserves the right to choose material things; she does not demand wealth, but you want her to one day stand in front of a store window without giving up what she likes because of the price.
You work hard, not because she is vain, but because you know: no matter how strong the feelings are, they cannot withstand daily compromises; no matter how deep the affection is, it needs room to maneuver in the face of reality.
What you want is never to trap her in the cage of love, but to give her the freedom to 'choose not to settle' in this relationship.
She can choose not to work because you can support her; she can also choose to pursue her career because you are willing to accompany her in conquering the world together.
True mature love is never about sacrifice and control, but about fulfillment and achievement. You want to be the one in her life who, 'even with nothing, will not drag you down; once having everything, will give you the best right away.'
This is the most powerful form of love—silently standing behind her, shielding her from the wind, supporting her, and holding up the sky.
So don’t laugh at a man who works hard for love; that is not lowly, but a high-level romance. The greatest love words are never 'I love you', but 'Whatever you want, I can make it happen for you.'
You earn money not to buy her heart, but to let her know that her heart is something you deserve to have.
What you want to give her is not just a life, but a way of living that is dignified, free, and not settling for less, being loved.
Because you understand: love is not a constraint, but a fulfillment. The meaning of all your efforts is to ensure that this love is worthy of freedom, confidence, and choice.
