Those who can stand up from the bottom have these three characteristics!
1. Disowning relatives
If your starting point is at the bottom, then your parents and relatives 100% have a problem with their understanding of this society. Everyone in your circle, boss, colleagues, friends, has a 90% probability of cognitive distortion.
The only way to get out from the bottom is to stay away from everyone who accuses you of being "selfish" and "irresponsible". The operating logic of the bottom is that they will not give you benefits, but also teach you how to be a good person. Because everyone wants to be someone else's Points don’t cost a presence.
Stay away from anyone who spreads negative energy to you. Even if these people didn't harm him, they would still call you an ungrateful bastard. Why? If you don't die in the mud with him, wouldn't you be betraying him?
2. Ability to "sit down".
Those who achieve great things must be able to stay calm. There are many people who change six jobs in one year and ten projects in three years. The fundamental reason is that there is no certainty. People who can break out from the bottom understand the importance of focus. Continuously doing things that accumulate is the so-called accumulation.
3. At the end of the day, just one word "rejection".
Reject your elders who are still in their 50s and 60s and want to guide you in employment, marriage and love. Reject your peers who don’t even have a piece of steel but want to drink bad wine with you. Refuse to be a puddle of mud and just think about how to let you support his juniors.
Never give these people "no strings attached benefits." Because if this thing appears at the bottom, it will cause endless trouble. If you give them good things, don't let them pay the corresponding price. Either he will be treated like a piece of shit, a coward who cleans up the mess. Either they will be regarded as villains with ulterior motives, and those who treat them well will be suspected a hundred times.
Why? Because just communicating in good faith does not conform to the basic logic of the bottom layer. (change)