Beautiful souls and success… and the plight of the incomplete narcissist

In the details of this miserable reality, a painful scene repeats in the lives of many women: the beautiful, successful woman, with intellect and taste, finds herself on a lifelong journey with a similar narcissistic man, fragile internally, incomplete in ways he does not realize, raised in a poor environment — not just in wealth, but in morals, religion, and knowledge.

That environment produces men who have become accustomed to belittling women to feel their masculinity, and diminishing her success to cover their own flaws. A man who masters emotional manipulation, unloads his issues onto her, and makes her doubt her worth no matter how elevated and beautiful she becomes.

The narcissist does not seek a partner, but a mirror that reflects his veiled ugliness, a victim upon whom he unloads his issues without shame. He steals her light and drains her happiness to feel that he exists.

What is most astonishing is that these women — despite their strength — endure for long periods; driven by nobility, religion, love, or society. Their beautiful years are crushed in the hands of one who does not recognize the value of blessing.

But oh, beautiful of heart and mind…

Always remember: the narcissistic man-like, born of a barren environment, is not worthy of you.

It is unworthy for a refined woman to endure someone who diminishes her. For distancing oneself from the incomplete is a treasure for the soul, and the existence of a genuine man, who fears God, respects your intellect, heart, and achievements… is not an impossible wish, but your natural right.

Advice:

Do not compromise your dignity under the guise of custom, concealment, or fear of loneliness.

Solitude with yourself is better.