In psychology, there is a concept called 'the same cause for likes and dislikes,' which states that a person being liked and later disliked often originates from the same trait. This is because the essence of all personality traits is two sides of the same coin; strengths and weaknesses are just different perspectives on character. Initially moved by the romantic side of someone, over time one may find them frivolous and superficial. Attracted to someone's vibrant energy, later one may see them as neurotic and unstable. Impressed by someone's dignity, one may turn around and find their pickiness and arrogance intolerable. Appreciating someone's sensitivity and delicacy, one may later discover their tendency to fall into emotional lows. Being drawn to someone's rationality and emotional stability can also lead to feelings of them being cold and lacking empathy. A progressive and opinionated person will not be compliant in everything. A person who can make money and has a clear mind cannot always be clingy, gentle, and adorable. There are no perfect personality traits in this world; the key lies in whether one can accept the truth of these dual aspects.