STOP OVERTHINKING AND BE MORE RELAXED WITH OTHERS.
In life, let's reduce our calculations with others, be less strict with ourselves, and in trading, we should also stop nitpicking entry points by each pip, each candle... then we will naturally feel more at ease and find it easier to trade. The market will also be less tense for us, and we will no longer feel like the market is 'harassing' us, but rather like we are 'going along' with it.
There was a time when I, like many others, always wanted to catch the entire wave, from the bottom to the top, not missing a single pip. But later I understood: no one can catch the entire wave forever; pushing too hard will lead to failure.
Especially right after making a big win, having a significant profit, one starts to regret small trades. "If only I had entered with a larger volume, I would have made 2x or 3x by now..." That very thought is when we begin to overthink with the market.
Many think that if they have 100k, they will earn several tens of thousands of dollars each month, totaling 400-500 million a month, which sounds good in theory, but in practice, it is very different. Even if one can earn, they will quickly lose it back. Why? Because they do not have the skill to manage that 100k account.
In reality, the market pays you based on your ability, mindset, experience, and capital at that time, just like when you go to work: as a staff member, you receive a staff salary at the end of the month; as a manager, you should receive a salary higher than that of the staff member. If you are a staff member asking for a manager's salary, how can the 'market boss' accommodate that? The profits you achieve must align with your ability, mindset, and financial position.