1. A girl who is harmonious in bed is definitely worth marrying. If there is disharmony even during dating, you should never marry her—this is indeed very important and affects the relationship, believe me.
2. A girl who you had to work hard to win back and took a long time to agree to marry is not worth marrying; you can't be submissive in a relationship for a lifetime. A girl who mutually likes you, who understands and empathizes with you in the relationship, is worth marrying.
3. A girl who can get along well with your parents and siblings is definitely worth marrying; this is a rare find.
4. A girl who has truly accompanied you through hardships and supported you from nothing to something is someone you will regret not marrying for the rest of your life. A girl who has just enjoyed the fruits of your labor from the beginning without going through any hardships with you is not that worth marrying.
5. A girl who has her own thoughts and views and lives well according to them shows that she not only has personal ideas, but those ideas are also useful. She is definitely worth marrying; she can help you with many decisions, and you can grow together.
6. Marrying a kind person is valuable, as kindness is the most precious quality. However, be sure to distinguish between what true kindness is and what is simply being overly naive; marrying someone overly naive can be burdensome for most ordinary people.
7. A girl who often threatens to break up during conflicts is not worth marrying because marriage involves more complex issues than dating. If she frequently talks about breaking up, what will happen after marriage?
On the contrary, a girl who, despite facing many difficulties during the relationship, still resolves issues through communication is worth marrying because we are looking for a partner who can share a lifetime and solve problems together.
8. A girl whose family background is similar to yours is worth marrying; a girl with a significantly different family background is really not recommended to marry.
A girl from a family that is too well-off may lead to frequent conflicts due to issues of pride; a girl from a family that is too poor may drag down your life together.
9. It doesn't matter if you have brothers; what matters is whether this girl's parents are biased towards sons.
If a girl's parents are biased towards sons, you cannot marry her because, in their eyes, marrying their daughter is like selling her to you; if the girl's parents can treat both genders equally, then such a girl is worth marrying.
10. A girl who is idealistic and has unrealistic romantic fantasies about relationships and marriage is not worth marrying. Although such people may seem pure and lovely, they can become disappointed in your marriage or in you very quickly. On the other hand, a more realistic girl is worth marrying; at least she has a clearer understanding of what she will face.
11. A girl who has appreciated and recognized you from the beginning is worth marrying; someone who always treats you with the mindset of 'you can become better' is not worth marrying. Let's be honest, most men don't make significant progress after marriage. If you were a certain way before marriage, you will still be that way after marriage; it’s better to find someone who thinks you're great just as you are now.
12. A girl who already recognizes the value of marriage and even has expectations for married life is worth marrying. A girl who fears marriage and childbirth and only agrees to marry under your comfort and encouragement is not worth marrying.
13. A girl who can discuss budgeting and financial planning together during your relationship and has similar or even better financial views is worth marrying; someone who just spends recklessly without saving is not worth marrying.
14. A girl whom you genuinely like and truly appreciate is worth marrying. A girl selected just because you reached a certain age and needed someone to settle down with is not worth marrying.
15. A girl who can take care of herself is worth marrying; a girl who relies entirely on you and cannot manage without you is not worth marrying.
16. A girl who shares your views on major issues is worth marrying. A girl whose values differ significantly from yours, and your relationship hasn't collapsed yet only because those issues haven't arisen, is not worth marrying.
17. A girl whose surrounding people have happy and harmonious relationships and who generally holds a positive attitude towards emotions and marriage is worth marrying; a girl whose majority of friends have unhappy relationships and especially one who frequently complains about her friends is not worth marrying.
