Today, a little white asked, should we make a contract?

My answer is definitely yes, if you want to do it, then do it!

Here’s a saying, a little horse crossing the river in pursuit of a partner.

When you have a girl you like, some advisors will tell you not to pursue, but to attract. Others will tell you to take the initiative to express your love and to give gifts.

This matter varies from person to person. Some people are not good-looking and lack charm; how can you expect them to attract anyone? Some are shy and can’t even dare to speak; they just sit there licking their fingers, how can they take the initiative?

However, just like the little horse crossing the river, regardless of what opinions exist, you need to go experience it yourself; only by doing so will you know the depth. You will understand whether the path underwater is suitable for you.

What if you get rejected? What if you lose money?

Take the rejections that you can bear as the cost of love, and take the losses you can afford to enter into a contract.

When pursuing a girl, can you bear the loss of treating her to dinner but still being rejected? Just because of that, will you not invite her anymore?

Learning to make contracts, can you afford to lose thousands of dollars to familiarize yourself with the rules and learn? Can you play along?

Therefore, the external influences in this world are not important; what’s important is to clarify your inner choices.

Only after clarifying can you truly understand that specific knowledge, the practical knowledge, is what matters most.