Rural college students face development obstacles. Where does the problem lie?

Dear family, today let's talk about why many rural college students are not developing well. The core issue is that they don’t quite understand how to ‘play’, which means they are not good at building interpersonal networks through social activities, and this is precisely a crucial skill.

Coming from a rural background myself, I understand the situation of rural children. Those who excel academically and escape the countryside work extremely hard in their studies and believe that resting and socializing are a waste of time. They can get into good schools but often make the wrong choice of major due to advice from elders.

More importantly, they miss the opportunity to learn how to ‘play’. They used to think that playing was useless and looked down on those who knew how to socialize. However, playing games together and participating in activities can help them meet true friends and build communication bridges. If they don’t have these experiences while growing up, it’s hard to develop emotional intelligence, and they seem dull, not knowing what else to talk about besides studying.

Academic achievers have their own circles, but most people in real life are ordinary and don’t enjoy pure knowledge exchanges. In today's era, without establishing effective connections with others, it’s tough to achieve success. After all, everyone needs emotional value; in the workplace, if one is not good at socializing, many things cannot be accomplished.

I’m not good at these things either; my way of speaking is like educating others. Many of the rural academic achievers I know have had their career development affected because of this, and their romantic relationships don’t go well either.

Some think it’s a money issue, but it’s not. Even with money, they are still accustomed to spending it on so-called ‘serious matters’ and are reluctant to use it for social entertainment. Ultimately, the way of thinking formed during adolescence has a profound impact, and it is very difficult to change.

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