When I was poor and unsuccessful, my friends looked down on me, and sometimes in the brother group, I was treated like air. After things started to look up a bit, the realistic friends around me came to ask how things were going, what I was doing, and where I was making money. Is that how people really are?
I didn't complete my new task this month, so I asked a few realistic friends to help register on Binance, hoping to finish the task. A few friends I grew up with, whom I can call brothers, I had never asked for help before because I didn't want to bother them, but now I asked a few, and only one was willing to help me.
I don't know if it's because we haven’t gathered for so long after starting work, and our feelings have faded, or what, but it’s still quite sad. In the past, during my low times, not many people paid attention when I spoke in the brother group. Now that they see I’m not working and often going out to have fun, a few people have come over recently, curiously asking what I’ve been doing. I said I’m doing virtual currency trading and didn't go into detail, because I saw that those who entered the market have lost a lot, so I didn’t specify what I was doing, fearing I might lead them into a pitfall, which wouldn't be good. This month, I still haven't completed the task, and I thought I could just register and handle it myself. Only one person I have a good relationship with helped, and I didn't expect anything from the others.
Another friend frequently calls to ask what I’m doing lately, if there are any opportunities to share. Since starting with honey, I told him how I started my shop and the details of subsequent promotions, hoping he would do it too, but unfortunately, he didn't stick with it. Recently, he asked me to help him see what opportunities there are in Shenzhen. I said okay; when you have time, you can come over, or I can go to you, we can have a drink and chat, catch up. He works as a loan assistant in Foshan, earning just over 3000 to 4000 a month. We used to have a good relationship, and I thought it would be nice to guide my friends and make money together. I didn’t expect that when I asked him today, he directly refused. Perhaps our relationship isn't strong enough.
No matter what I do, whether it's with realistic friends or in public, I share what I have learned without reservation. What’s truly sad is that when a few friends need to borrow money or ask for help, they come to me, but when I need a little help, they are unwilling. I have decided not to lend money to these few friends who have rejected me anymore, not a single cent!!!
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