People always need to make continuous progress. Since the last time I sighed, I have forced myself to grow a little more.
I will no longer demand to hear the truth I want to hear from others, even if they are people I think should speak freely, even if they are good friends.
In recent months, I have been reading Mao's Selected Works and some Taoist theories, and I have gained some relief. For friends, we should cater to each other's common side and form a positive magnetic field, so that we can last long.
As for different opinions, you can only express your normal views after others ask you to, but you cannot criticize or ridicule others' existing practices, especially you cannot influence others' practices and mentality.
In terms of cause and effect, you and him know each other and plan and work together on some things, which is your fate.
However, because everyone's cognition and experience are different, the decisions made will not be exactly the same, so you cannot change others' "results" arbitrarily and forcibly, which is not good for you or him.
The most important thing I want to say is,
When dealing with people and things, be more tolerant and loving
Thank you for the gifts you have given me
Love those who are still around
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