Try not to let others know your state, whether it is good or bad, because when you are good, others will be jealous, and when you are bad, others will mock you. The best state of life is to not envy others, not belittle oneself, enjoy the tranquility of life, and stay well.
Old friends don’t know my recent situation, new friends don’t know my past; the recent situation should not be known by old friends, and the past should not be told to new friends. Joy and sorrow are self-navigated, and others may find it hard to understand. Through tribulations, one is reborn, and only one knows their own warmth and coldness.
Once you understand, you will realize that in this world, you are you. When you hurt, it’s your own pain; when you are tired, it’s your own fatigue. Even if someone sympathizes with you, so what? It is still you who must tidy up the mess of life.
Don’t tell everyone about your struggles; you should know that everyone’s experiences are different. Your struggles may seem trivial to others, but they hurt you deeply.
Everyone has worries and unhappy moments; having emotions is normal for people. Controlling emotions is your skill; you cannot let emotions dictate you, and that relies on your wisdom.
People only care about the results; no one cares how tiring or painful your process is. When you support the entire process alone, you will understand that only the weak need sympathy, while the strong always strive for self-improvement.
Nowadays, people resent you for being poor, fear you for being rich; they hate you for what you have, and laugh at what you lack. If you live better than them, it’s like being burned by fire in their hearts; if you live worse than them, they will bloom with joy.
It’s inappropriate to share adult worries with anyone; you need to learn to digest them slowly and give yourself some time to heal. Smiling without speaking is a form of openness; feeling pain without expressing it is a form of cultivation.
Put away the envious gaze at others; no matter how good they are, they are still others, and no matter how wealthy they are, they won’t give you a penny. No matter how unbearable your life is, it’s still yours. If you are not willing to work hard to change, such a life will make you suffer for a lifetime.
As a person, not belittling yourself is the greatest respect for your own life, not looking up to others, nor looking down on yourself. Life requires confidence; believing in yourself can inspire your potential. Belief is a power; believing that you can create a good life for yourself.
A good mindset determines a good life. A person’s best state is to grow upwards through their own efforts, dedicating their life to exchange for a peaceful time.
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