People are different. Some can recharge you; just a few words with them can restore your energy, and you can face the world again. Others only drain your energy; a single word from them can feel like it takes days off your life. Therefore, you must stay away from those who consume you. Our life is a continuous process of meeting and saying goodbye. We cannot decide when someone will appear in our lives or keep someone from leaving, but we can choose how to interact with them. Every person who appears in our lives is unique. Some come to support you, while others come to drain you. Meeting the right person can enrich your life; meeting the wrong person can ruin it. We spend our lives searching for the right people. Some are fortunate just to meet the right one; their presence in your life is a blessing. No matter what happens, they can inspire you with just a few words, and you can regain your confidence and continue pursuing your goals. In life, people come and go, and inevitably, we will encounter the wrong ones. Their presence will only drain you, and being with them may heighten your anxiety. When you cannot change that, staying away might be the best choice. You should know that in a world of crows, swans can also be guilty. When faced with bad situations, cut your losses timely; when encountering bad people, withdraw promptly. If your thoughts are not on the same level, just respect each other; if your values do not align, just smile. Words reflect the heart, and speech reflects the person’s character; every word and action reveals one’s integrity. If someone always makes you feel uncomfortable when they speak, and it’s not a matter of their character, then it must be due to the mismatch in your energies. You don't need everyone to like you, nor do you need everyone to understand you. When they say something negative about you, it doesn't mean you are truly bad; it simply reflects the different perspectives people have on the world. If you encounter someone who consumes your life, regardless of who they are, try to stay away from them. They bring nothing of value to your life except emotional distress and pain. Time is precious; do not waste it on those who drain you. The quickest way to solve the problem is to distance yourself from them. This world has never had anyone who cannot survive without another. Believe that by leaving those who consume you, you will live more easily and freely.
