Big Cow

Do you know why you're not happy? Because you dwell on a small matter for the whole day, feel anxious and internally conflicted when you hear others discussing you, regret your wrong decisions, and delay letting go. You need to understand that what has happened has happened, and what has been discussed has been discussed; do not regret it or care about others' evaluations, and do not romanticize the path you did not take. The experiences you are meant to have will come eventually; do not overthink. You should be more open-minded, allow everything to happen, maintain a good attitude, and prioritize making yourself happy. Overthinking is a common problem among modern people. We can toss and turn because of a careless remark, weigh a trivial decision repeatedly, or deny ourselves due to others' evaluations. This mental internal conflict is like a war without gunpowder, consuming our energy and eroding our happiness. However, upon reflection, most of these troubles stem from our obsession with wanting to control everything while forgetting that life is inherently a journey full of uncertainties. Those moments of being tangled in past decisions, caring about others' evaluations, and fantasizing about the paths not taken are like invisible shackles that bind our steps forward. Regret and fantasy are both escapes from the present. We tend to idealize the roads we did not take, believing that they must be filled with flowers. Little do we know that every path has its bumps and thorns. What we think we have missed may just be an illusion woven by our imagination. Similarly, obsessing over past decisions is merely using today's maturity to criticize yesterday's naivety. Let go of the obsession with perfection and accept the imperfections in life; let go of the desire for control and embrace life's uncertainties; let go of caring about others' evaluations and live out your true self. This is not a passive resignation but an active acceptance. When we learn to face the ups and downs of life with a peaceful mindset, we will find that happiness is actually very simple. It does not depend on external evaluations or perfect choices, but on how we perceive everything that happens to us. Allowing everything to happen is the greatest kindness to ourselves. Let go of the burden of overthinking, move forward lightly, go with the flow, and seek inner peace and happiness through acceptance. #加密市场反弹 $BNB