The passing of Da S is truly heartbreaking, but perhaps it makes us understand: "In a life that cannot be relived, please try to be happy. Being loved is certainly wonderful, but it's okay if you're not. Don't speak, don't ask, don't expect, and there will be no disappointment. Hold up your umbrella, take good steps, don't go astray, and don't forget the way back."
Life only has a one-way ticket, no round trip; in the splendid journey of over 30,000 days, there are no rehearsals and no replays, it's all up to your own planning. Nothing is eternally unchanging, only happiness is paramount, cherish what you have, and be grateful for what you encounter.
The seasons have cycles, and time ages people; youth rushes toward old age, and time ultimately has its limits. Life has its own scenery at each stage, and each year has its own flavor; at every stage, there will be a unique badge of life that belongs to you.
Encountering a good partner is a lifelong blessing; on this journey of life, you will have more fun and happiness. To be loved is a kind of luck. If no one loves you for the time being, you must accept it; perhaps it's just that fate hasn't arrived yet. Don't rush, just love yourself well first.
There's no need to tell everyone, nor to seek information everywhere, and certainly don’t have pointless expectations. Because love that is sought actively lacks a sense of security; care that is asked for is mostly perfunctory; expectations that are eagerly awaited can easily shatter like bubbles.
In the end, let's cheer each other on together...