Without money, I don't dare to meet girls, at least it proves he is not a jerk, because a jerk dates girls using borrowed money, and even the money for a hotel is borrowed because he has thick skin. A good man's mentality is different; he feels that he temporarily doesn't deserve her because he has no money, and he wants to work hard to save some money before showing himself. But actually, this kind of thinking is also wrong because opportunities do not wait for anyone. A woman's feelings can change quickly; just because she has a good impression of you now doesn't mean she will in the future, as a woman's window of opportunity is very short.