RULES
pay yourself first, or what is called pay yourself.
I don't want to give up on anyone's happiness. I don't want to be left behind when I'm poor. If you want to go back, make sure you don't have anyone, I choose myself because I'm still poor.
The solution to being poor? Yes, work, don't look for a girl who "accepts what is." Just date when you're still poor, what if you want to get married later.