You see someone driving a $100,000 car, but you don't see the monthly payments
You see someone going on a $10,000 vacation, but you don't see their credit card statements
You see someone living in a $10,000,000 mansion, but you don't see their 60-to-80-hour work weeks
Don't try to live someone else's life unless you know what's happening in the background - trying to look rich is VERY expensive