Today we won't talk about trivial matters, today let's discuss the life philosophy of someone who has been involved in society for over ten years.

First, let's mention a harsh reality: whatever you desire is often unworthy of you.

Whenever you see a position that satisfies you 100% in terms of salary, benefits, career prospects, work location, and job content, that company will 100% not appreciate you.

Whenever you see a partner who meets your standards 100% in terms of appearance, income, family background, and education, that person will 100% not appreciate you.

Next, let's discuss an ugly aspect of human nature: we can disregard things when we don't have them, but once we obtain them, we start to care about everything.

For example, in relationships, at the beginning, just seeing the other person makes you happy, but later you need them to accompany you to feel happy, and even later you need to be catered to in order to feel happy, and ultimately, not even if the other person becomes your servant can they make you happy anymore.

For example, with wealth: when you earn your first 100,000, you may feel very happy, but when you earn your first 300,000, you will feel like it's so little and you can't afford a good car; when you earn your first 500,000, you will look down on yourself for being poor, because you can't even afford a down payment on a house.

Why can't we feel the joy of childhood anymore?

A very important reason is: we have grown up with grievances.

In summary: the best feeling is when something does not belong to you!